Don’t Allow Anyone to Belittle Your Soul By Hating Them!

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Some people have a way of making us feel angry and even insecure. Sometimes we feel like we can’t take another minute of that person. Regardless of how we initially feel about this person, we must never allow this person to belittle our souls by making us hate him or her.

We must be extra careful not to give away our powers, especially to undeserving people! Yes. We have powers; very special powers, and lots of them too. And yes we can still hold on to these powers even when dealing with people who make us feel small.

We live in an imperfect world where sometimes people are going to do things we don’t like. Some people will accidentally hurt us, while others will intentionally hurt us. Yes… Some people will try to hurt us on purpose. It’s sad, but let’s not get too mad about the injustice of an imperfect world. Let’s not hate the hurter. They are just making some erroneous attempt to regain some of their own powers by trying to ruffle our feathers.

What the big meanies don’t understand is that personal power can be elusive and trying to steal others’ powers is always an inferior method to just creating one’s own. Sadly, some people just don’t know how to create their own feelings of power and control. They mistakenly believe that making us mad gives them back a sense of control and power, however false it may be. It’s sad, isn’t it? So let’s not help them continue down this wrong road of harassing and bullying others. Let’s stand on the higher ground of love and help these people who don’t know how to help themselves.

Now please share with the rest of us how you plan to use Granddaddy’s secret of,  ”Not Allowing Anyone to Belittle Your Soul By Hating Them!”


Thanks for your time,

Daniel Blanchard

Author of the Granddaddy’s Secrets book series